Although it isn’t common knowledge, my Dom and I spend a lot of time apart. Circumstances force us to conduct a long-distance and in-person lifestyle relationship. Since I am not a straight-up submissive it was important that we built rewards into our scenes and play. Some people say that being submissive and serving your Dom is reward itself but this can cause some resentment particularly when he doesn’t have the time to play with me as often as we would like or we are on different sides of the state.

We came up with the idea of rewards to not only make play more fun but to help me feel wanted, needed, and cared for when he is busy. This list is a work in progress so check back often. If you have any reward ideas of your own, we are always open to comments and suggestions.

Possible Rewards

1. Escape 1 punishment without any repercussions. Need a token or something to mark this
2. Removal of 1 rule of your choice for 24 hours.
3. 1 sushi dinner/lunch prepared by me. *He is an excellent chef and great at sushi
4. 1 specially crafted dessert, made from scratch, to your liking.
5. You may request up to 3 orgasms at any time, delivered by me, for 24 hours.
6. You may demand the fulfillment of any 1 scene you want to do.
7. You may demand specific photos or videos of me, for your enjoyment.
8. Playing Diablo or other games together *Diablo is a favorite activity that can be played together when we are apart.
9. Audio book downloadable – don’t pay full price there are services and sales where they are really cheap or pick one out from the library for you to download.
10. Reading to you, while we are together or apart over the phone.
11. Giving you a bath
12. Brushing your hair
13. Painting your nails
14. Dinner together out while on the phone when we are apart.